وَأَمَّا مَنۢ بَخِلَ وَٱسْتَغْنَىٰ
How to read it
Wa 'ammā man[m] bakhila wa-s'tagh'nā
But he who is a greedy miser and thinks himself self-sufficient,
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
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وَأَمَّا مَنۢ بَخِلَ وَٱسْتَغْنَىٰ
Wa 'ammā man[m] bakhila wa-s'tagh'nā
But he who is a greedy miser and thinks himself self-sufficient,
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
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This ayah describes the person who holds on to everything and thinks they need no one.
Start with bismillah.
Squeeze a handful of sand or rice as tightly as you can. Ask: "What happens when you grip too hard?"
Watch the Little School video about why the ocean is salty: rivers keep bringing water in, the sun lifts it out, and the salt stays behind.
Now listen to the ayah together in the app, with the translation. Ask: "What two things does this person do?"
Each child keeps one wonder question, for example: "Why is it hard to share sometimes?" Younger children can draw theirs.
Find it in the mushaf: Surah Al-Layl is surah 92. Find ayah 8. Compare it with ayah 5. How are the two people different?
Fact: Some lakes have rivers flowing in but none flowing out. What happens to their water?
Ages 5–8: Salt test. Dissolve salt in a saucer of water and leave it on a sunny windowsill. After a few days, what is left?
Ages 9–12: In and out. Draw two lakes: one with a river in and a river out, and one with only a river in. Explain why the second becomes very salty.
Finish with: "I found that when water only comes in and never goes out, ___."

Talk together:
Make a small plan: "This week, I will share ___ even though I'd like to keep it."
Action: Share your hard-to-share thing and notice how it feels.
