فَأَمَّا ٱلْيَتِيمَ فَلَا تَقْهَرْ
How to read it
Fa'ammā l-yatīma falā taq'har'
Therefore, treat not the orphan with harshness,
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
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فَأَمَّا ٱلْيَتِيمَ فَلَا تَقْهَرْ
Fa'ammā l-yatīma falā taq'har'
Therefore, treat not the orphan with harshness,
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
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This ayah commands: so do not be harsh with the orphan.
Start with bismillah.
Hold an egg very gently in your hand. Ask: "Why do we hold it so carefully?"
Watch the short video of swan chicks (cygnets) riding safely on a parent's back.
Now listen to the ayah together in the app, with the translation. Ask: "What does this ayah tell us not to do?"
Each child keeps one wonder question, for example: "How can I be gentle with someone who is sad?" Younger children can draw theirs.
Find it in the mushaf: Surah Ad-Duha is surah 93. Find ayah 9. Read it with ayah 6. Allah sheltered the Prophet ﷺ when he was an orphan, and now He tells us how to treat orphans.
Fact: Why do cygnets ride on their parents' backs?
Ages 5–8: Gentle hands. Practise carrying something fragile (an egg, a full cup) across the room carefully.
Ages 9–12: Kind words. Write five kind things you could say to someone who has lost a parent or feels alone.
Finish with: "I found that cygnets ride on their parents' backs to ___."

Talk together:
Make a small plan: "This week, I will be extra gentle with ___."
Action: Be gentle in your words and hands all week.
