Start with bismillah.

Ask: "What can you do when an argument is getting angry?"

Watch the Mental Health Center Kids video Anger Management Techniques For Kids.

Now listen to the ayah together in the app, with the translation. Ask: "What is the Prophet told to do with the stubborn deniers?"

Each child keeps one wonder question, for example: "When is it better to walk away than to keep arguing?" Younger children can draw theirs.

Find it in the mushaf: Surah At-Tur is surah 52. Find ayah 45. The key word fa-dharhum means so leave them. After explaining clearly, the Prophet was told he didn't need to keep arguing with those who refused to listen. Allah would deal with them on their Day. Sometimes the wise choice is to stop arguing and stay calm.

Fact: What are three ways to calm down when you feel angry?

Ages 5–8: Cool-down card. Draw three pictures of things that help you calm down.

Ages 9–12: Exit lines. Write three polite things to say when you want to end an argument.

Finish with: "I found that three ways to calm down are ___."

Talk together:

• Why didn't the Prophet need to keep arguing?
• Which name of Allah does this remind you of?
• How do you know when an argument is going nowhere?
• What can we leave in Allah's hands?
• What would you like to ask about this ayah?

Make a small plan: "This week, I will walk away calmly from one argument and take three slow breaths."

• Walk away calmly.
• Draw a cool-down card.
• Share your exit lines.
• Next time: the next ayah (52:46) says their plots won't help. Explore it together!

Action: Walk away calmly from one argument and take three slow breaths.