قَالَ تَٱللَّهِ إِن كِدتَّ لَتُرْدِينِ
How to read it
Qāla ta-llahi 'in kidtta latur'dīni
He said: "By Allah! thou wast little short of bringing me to perdition!
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
Opening the ayah…
قَالَ تَٱللَّهِ إِن كِدتَّ لَتُرْدِينِ
Qāla ta-llahi 'in kidtta latur'dīni
He said: "By Allah! thou wast little short of bringing me to perdition!
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
Looking for reflections…
Shared reflections are reviewed before they appear. We feature ones that follow the spirit of the 4-I journey and suit families of all backgrounds.
Guided by the 4-I journey: Inspire, Investigate, Integrate, Impart. Use it as a starting point and make it your own.
Opening the guide…
No reflections for this ayah yet. Be the first, by reflecting with the 4-I journey below!
4-I guide
He will say: by Allah, you very nearly destroyed me.
Start with bismillah.
Ask: "Have you ever nearly made a bad choice because of a friend?"
Watch the WAYOFLIFESQ video Muslim Kid Follows Bad Friend.
Now listen to the ayah together in the app, with the translation. Ask: "What does the believer realise?"
Each child keeps one wonder question, for example: "How close was he to following his friend?" Younger children can draw theirs.
Find it in the mushaf: Surah As-Saffat is surah 37. Find ayah 56. The key word turdin means to bring to ruin. The believer realises how close he came to following his friend's doubts. One wrong friendship can pull us far away. Recognising danger early and stepping back is wisdom.
Fact: What does the word tawbah mean?
Ages 5–8: Step back. Practise stepping back from a pretend "wrong" line on the floor.
Ages 9–12: Danger signs. Write three signs that a friendship is pulling you away from good.
Finish with: "I found that tawbah means ___."

Talk together:
Make a small plan: "This week, I will step away from something that feels wrong."
Action: Step away from something that feels wrong.
