Start with bismillah.

Ask: "Who are the people you rely on most?"

Watch the An-Naseeha video Parenting Wisdom from Luqman the Wise.

Now listen to the ayah together in the app, with the translation. Ask: "Who cannot help whom on that Day?"

Each child keeps one wonder question, for example: "How can I prepare for that Day myself?" Younger children can draw theirs.

Find it in the mushaf: Surah Luqman is surah 31. Find ayah 33. The key word al-gharur means the deceiver. Today, parents help their children in many ways. On the Day of Judgement, each person stands on their own deeds. That is why loving parents, like Luqman, teach their children while there is time. The ayah warns not to be fooled by this life or by Shaytan.

Fact: Which surah says on that Day a person will run from their brother, mother and father?

Ages 5–8: My own deeds. Draw a backpack and fill it with good deeds you will carry yourself.

Ages 9–12: Taking responsibility. Write three things you can do for your own faith without being reminded.

Finish with: "I found that it is surah ___."

Talk together:

• Why does each person need their own good deeds?
• Which name of Allah does this remind you of?
• How do parents help us prepare?
• What can you do without being reminded?
• What would you like to ask about this ayah?

Make a small plan: "This week, I will do one act of worship without anyone reminding me."

• Worship without reminders.
• Draw a deeds backpack.
• Share taking responsibility.
• Next time: the next ayah (31:34) ends the surah with five things only Allah knows. Explore it together!

Action: Do one act of worship without anyone reminding you.