أَمْ لِلْإِنسَٰنِ مَا تَمَنَّىٰ
How to read it
'Am' lil''insāni mā tamannā
Nay, shall man have (just) anything he hankers after?
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
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أَمْ لِلْإِنسَٰنِ مَا تَمَنَّىٰ
'Am' lil''insāni mā tamannā
Nay, shall man have (just) anything he hankers after?
Translation: Abdullah Yusuf Ali
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Or will a person have whatever they wish for?
Start with bismillah.
Ask: "What do you do when you can't have what you want?"
Watch the Woohoo Storytime video You Don't Always Get What You Want, Roys Bedoys!
Now listen to the ayah together in the app, with the translation. Ask: "What question does Allah ask about wishes?"
Each child keeps one wonder question, for example: "Why doesn't Allah give us everything we wish for?" Younger children can draw theirs.
Find it in the mushaf: Surah An-Najm is surah 53. Find ayah 24. The key word tamanna means he wished. The people wished their idols could help them, but wishing doesn't make something true. We don't always get what we want, and sometimes that is a mercy, because Allah knows what is best for us.
Fact: What are calm ways to handle disappointment?
Ages 5–8: Wish and wait. Write a wish on paper, then write one good thing you already have.
Ages 9–12: Hidden good. Write about a time you didn't get what you wanted and something good came from it.
Finish with: "I found that calm ways to handle disappointment are ___."

Talk together:
Make a small plan: "This week, I will accept 'no' calmly and say alhamdulillah."
Action: Accept 'no' calmly and say alhamdulillah.
